ANGER :
Anger is just one letter short of DANGER.
“Anger is an acid that can do more harm to
vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured.” – Mark Twain
Anger is one
such emotion which if used in an effective way, can help you to achieve
success; but if used in a wrong way, there is nothing more destructive than it.
Wikipedia defines anger as, “Anger is an emotional response related to one's
psychological interpretation of having been threatened. Often it indicates when
one's basic boundaries are violated.” Anger is one such emotion or
characteristic which is rarely absent in anyone’s personality. Only difference
is the degree of getting angry. Some people get angry very easily while some
get angry only when something terribly goes wrong. Although anger is a very
natural emotion, people find it difficult to deal with it. Anger not only
affects the person on whom the anger is directed, it also affects the person
holding it.
We all know
the consequences of anger. Anger can destroy anything in few seconds, which has
taken a lifetime to build.
The point of
concern here is, in spite of knowing that anger results in harmful consequences,
people find it difficult to get rid of it. Some people even make it a tagline
to give excuses by saying, “you know how I am, I get angry very easily, I don’t
do it purposely it just happens.” What they don’t realize is that by saying
this they are making it only their weakness. There is an interesting theory
about anger.
Some say, if the anger is channelized in a correct way, you can
achieve your goals aggressively. On the other hand, if not channelized in a
proper way, it can destroy almost anything. Even though we may want to agree
with this theory, the fact remains that even a mere thought of anger has the
power to affect you and your life in a destructive way. It is always better to
work on your anger and try to reduce it. This will help to relieve lot of your
stress and live your life in a peaceful way.
There are many
therapies available today for anger management. Anger Management has become a need
of the hour today. Graphology or handwriting analysis helps you to understand
the aspect of anger in your nature through your handwriting. Graphotherapy is
one such therapy which can be helpful for anger management. So let us see which
part or which formations in our handwriting reveal the aspect of anger:
Club Strokes are
tapering strokes which most appear towards the end of letters. The variation in
pressure can be seen easily as shown in the fig.
People having Club Strokes in their writing, tend to get
very angry. They have lot of anger in them and tend to have violent thoughts.
Majority of people having Club Strokes said the reason for their anger was,
things not going as per their wish. These people find it difficult to control
their temper and tend to behave harshly with people. As I said earlier, even a thought of anger has
the power to affect you adversely, venting out a lot of anger has more adverse
effects. People with strong or too many Club Strokes in their handwriting tend
to have joint-pain problems.
Through Graphotherapy, Club Strokes can be reduced and thus,
anger can be reduced or brought in control.
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